Sunday 25 May 2008

When you are alone.....


What will you be think when you are alone.....
When i am alone... i will think a lot.
Lately... i have been really tight up with my works. There are days i need to work till 12 a.m.... and i work 7 days a week. Feel so exhausted...
A good friend from BW called me up few days ago. She is facing some relationship problem. It is about a third party between her and his bf. That third party is her bf's ex... and now they broke up... she has been very very sad.. asking me what she should do now? Honestly i have no idea... i am a failure in my own relationship also. what i can say is that times heal. trying to let go and move forward. That is the reality of life. You just need to go and face it yourself. No one can help you but you yourself.

3 comments:

泥菩萨 said...

有些东西,有些事,有些人,你越想把他忘记,你就是一世都忘不了。
有时候,不再对这些东西那么执著,试着去放开,反而心里也会好过一点。

一段受伤的感情,就好像伤口一样,会痛,但总会有痊愈的一天。
但当伤口差不多完全痊愈的时候,请不要再去撕开那些疤,不然伤口永远不会好起来。
当然,伤口痊愈了,总会留下疤痕。
那是个感情的记号,可能你会很不喜欢这个疤痕。但你可以把它当成一个记录,一个警惕。
或者乐观一点,它也可以是一个装饰品,一个刺青。

别再用工作麻醉自己,因为累坏的,始终是自己的身体,别人是感受不到的。
要放开,真的不是那么容易;但如果你真的做到了,那就是垮了好大的一步。往后的日子,就可以轻松地面对了。

Life is Beautiful said...

thanks a lot. mind telling me who are u? thanks....

泥菩萨 said...

泥菩萨过江,自身难保。
能医不自医的人。
谢谢你之前的安慰。
你那么聪明,你知道的。

V

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