Monday 13 December 2010

Been more than a year!


It has been more than a years since i last updated my blog. Gosh... time flies. It has come to end of the year. 2010 is coming to an end and soon the beginning of 2011.
It has been a dramatic changes in my life. I have moved into a new house end of last year and life has been good on my side.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank some one important in my life. Your presence not only brought lot of happiness and wonderful memories to me, it has indeed also making my chapter of life more wonderful.

Saturday 23 May 2009

Sleepless night.....



It has been quite a while that i didnt update my blog.....
now.... 4.24 a.m..... yet i am still awake here and writing my blog.
This is such a special yet weird day to me... i have been trying to sleep since 12 and till now i am still awake.... very very weird.
I am still very very active, and my mind keep thinking.. thinking....
There must be something in my mind.....
I remembered when small, my dad keep telling me this, if there is an opportunity in front of you, you have to grab it, try it, do your best, at least you will never regret in the future.....
Year 2009 had been an up and down year to me so far.... I am facing a lot of challenges, things that i never think it will happened is happening, and yet i need to face it with patience and try to sort it out. Thanks god that so far things are getting much much better and on the correct pathway. and at the same time....i think god had sent an angel into my life to, some one that treating me extremely nice and well, thanks a lot!
It had come to a point.... a turning point in my life... that i need a lot of courages to take up this new challenges.... i think this is what bothering me now... i keep thinking.. should i go on with it, or i shouldnt.....????
I think i need changes and i need to take up the challenges and i am sure i can make it a great success!

Thursday 9 April 2009

15 years ago......09-04-1994


You left me 15 years ago... the year that i am 15 turning 16..... the solid 15 years!
there are times i need u desparately, there are times i miss u, there are times i wished to chat with you, there are times.......
you gave me the wonderful 15 years of sweet memory, been taking extremely good care of me...
how i wish u are still with me, and let me take good care of you.......
May u always rest in peace!

Friday 27 March 2009

520...

This is specially dedicated to some one... 5201314
Life is much more beautiful now... you really brought me lot of happiness!

Friday 16 January 2009

Monday 12 January 2009

Love.....


你有沒有曾經那樣深刻的愛過一個人,
即使世界不停轉動,時間不曾靜止,你卻依然站在同樣的位置.....??

你有沒有曾經那樣心酸的愛著一個人,
即使傷痕累累,只能夜黑時分,等待一個擁抱的夢....??
你有沒有曾經那樣無奈的愛著一個人,
只能偷偷摸摸,沉沉默默,連坦白的權力也沒有...??

你有沒有曾經那樣悽慘的愛著一個人,
那樣掏心掏肺的付出與包容但是到最後只有自己一個人知道?

你有沒有曾經把你的頭輕輕的靠在一個人的肩膀,
用一個最好的朋友的身份去索取對方的溫柔,
卻又要灑脫的把眼神看向遠方,不能透露絲毫心意...??

你有沒有曾經日也祈禱夜也祈禱的期盼有天到來,
那個人終於願意深深的擁抱著你,親你的眼你的嘴你的鼻尖,
說他要你,說他愛你,說他要和你在一起...??

Thursday 8 January 2009

Happy New Year! Welcome 2009!


Welcome 2009!
A new journey had just started! May this year be a better year!
God been so good to me... sent one angel into my life! Really enjoying your accompany! Cheers!

Tuesday 23 December 2008

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!


You know why God created gap between fingers?
So that at some day the one who is made for you, comes and fill those gaps by holding your hand forever!
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

Thursday 4 December 2008

爱的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜,
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,
你终於不再孤单了,至少有一个人想著你、恋著你,
不论做什么事情, 只要能一起,就是好的,
但是慢慢的,随著彼此的认识愈深,
你开始发现了对方的缺点,
於是问题一个接著一个发生,
你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避,
有人说爱情就像在捡石头,
总想捡到一个适合自己的,
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?
她适合你,那你又适合她吗?
其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,
或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,
但是记住人是有弹性的,
很多事情是可以改变的,
只要你有心、有勇气,
与其到处去捡未知的石头,
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨,你开始磨了吗?
很多人以为是因为感情淡了,
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错!其实是人先被惰性征服,
所以感情才会变淡的。

我们总说:我要找一个你很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,
你可能无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。
没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?
其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发觉而已呢?
所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧!
他或许已经等你很久喽!
当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住,喝酒不要超过六分醉,吃饭不要超过七分饱,爱一个人不要超过八分

Wednesday 5 November 2008

What is love?


Love is like a tattoo? It is so beautiful yet painful?

Tuesday 4 November 2008

Welcome... Journey start again...

Welcome again... your presence had brighten up the dull town again... full of hopes! Wish to spend some precious moment! Let make it the magic moment in our life! Cheers!

Monday 3 November 2008

I Miss you.....


It's been dull in town since you left, Think of you, I feel bereft
You have flown away to another land, to continue your pastures and life.
Here i sit..... next to where you sit, driving alone, looking out the window. The day is drab and dreary. I think of you to console myself , I try to be a little cherry, but really its just mighty tough. Not having you around, I miss you more than I can say, and feel so low, so sad and so down!
Silently the sweet flowers bloom, Silently sunlight fills the room, Silently you went away, Silently I pine away.
As I walk the noisy street, conscious of my hurrying feet, seeking there for direction, wondering when we will meet? My heart is heavy with unshed tears, my mind is crowded with unknown fears.......... Parting is just another cross to bear, along life's changing way, and you must really know I care, as i grind along each day......
Wish i were somehow there with you, To smell the roses of some fairer hue, to see the way the honey bees siting...... to see you....
I just miss you....... every moments!

That life?

Do you know how i feel now?
I just spoke to you..... at times i really felt so happy to receive your call. but... at times. my heart broken into pieces.
Anyway, life still need to move on. And remember our agreement? i will still carry on with me, move on.. and be there for you whenever u need some one.

Saturday 1 November 2008

God is So Good!

Since the day i met you, the feeling of missing you is getting stronger. It had been a while since i last mising some one so badly.
There was pleasure in the pathless woods, There was rapture on the lonely shore, By the deep sea, with music in its roar, I love now nature less, it just so glad that i met you.
You are just like a flower, So sweet and so fair. I look at you and love touches me like a prayer.
I remember the day when i met you, and now i feel a happiness each and everytime i think of you.
I am trying so hard to control myself. To control my feeling.... to control not falling into it.. to control...Alot of time i just lost of control, lost my sense of direction....so miserable. and i realized that i am in big troubles.
My close friend christina told me, god is so good. So i ask god, if we are not destiny to be together, why HE send this angel to me? To protect me? To comfort me? To motivate me? To challenge me? To???? So many ???
.........................................

Thursday 30 October 2008

TIRAMISU


tiramisu - an Italian dessert consisting of layers of sponge cake soaked with coffee and brandy or liqueur layered with mascarpone cheese and topped with grated chocolate
hope you will always remember the taste of the tiramisu.


Wednesday 29 October 2008

Some one......

You are just like some one send by god to me. You are just some one that i dream off all this while. some one that can really melted my heart! it had been a while that i never had this feeling. It was so sweet.
We met in this crossed junction of life, yet i know that we are not destiny to be together, just may be can be very good friend.
Anyway, thanks so much for the sweet and wonderful memory. It will always be engraved in my heart.
Faith makes all things possible, Action makes all things work, and Love make all things beautiful!

Friday 24 October 2008

Friday 3 October 2008



Watched this movie lately, found it very nice and really meaningful. Sometime we just need to ask ourselve, do you really understand what is love?
I had been falling in love deeply before. been together with some one for many years before we really realized that we are not suitable. Glad that we still maintain as good friend.

The Secret of Love
The first secret - the power of thought
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change out beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The second secret - the power of respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The third secret - the power of giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! It is not like a business where you count the feedback. The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - to power of friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into relationship, you must first being friendship.

The fifth secret - the power of touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relatinships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of letting go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go ou our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The seventh secret - the power of communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You". Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.... why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be commited to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationship. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt possionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the otther person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" f the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

Thursday 2 October 2008

找一个懂你的人

要找到真爱,便要找一个懂你的人。
这个人也许並不是十全十美,但因为他懂你;
你就认为他是十全十美的,就是这么一个懂字。

懂是什么?
当你遇到挫折时,他不说一句损你尊严的话
当你意气用事时,他绝不迁就,而会娓娓解说事理给你听
当你心情不好时,他绝不和你一般见事,而大吵大闹
当你远离千里,难得见面时,他也深信你
当你愉快时,他也愉快而且会告诉年你
当你烦恼时,他也烦恼但不会轻易告诉你

懂,是需要多少的了解,多少的体谅,多少爱心
要找一个懂你的人,也许很难,但要有信心
找一个懂你的人,也期许自己做一个懂他的人

聪明的人,喜欢猜心,虽然每次都猜对了,卻失去了自己的心
傻气的人,喜欢给心,虽然每次都被笑了,卻得到了别人的心

Dishes

When i am stressed up with work, i would spend some time preparing some nice foods for lunch or dinner. Here are some of the dishes that i prepared.













Life is Beautiful.....

What is life? And why should we care? Well to begin with, we are living beings, and that fact distinguishes us from most things in the Universe. Though humans are not the only living things, we are among the few, so understanding the nature of life might be an important step toward understanding ourselves.