Thursday 30 October 2008

TIRAMISU


tiramisu - an Italian dessert consisting of layers of sponge cake soaked with coffee and brandy or liqueur layered with mascarpone cheese and topped with grated chocolate
hope you will always remember the taste of the tiramisu.


Wednesday 29 October 2008

Some one......

You are just like some one send by god to me. You are just some one that i dream off all this while. some one that can really melted my heart! it had been a while that i never had this feeling. It was so sweet.
We met in this crossed junction of life, yet i know that we are not destiny to be together, just may be can be very good friend.
Anyway, thanks so much for the sweet and wonderful memory. It will always be engraved in my heart.
Faith makes all things possible, Action makes all things work, and Love make all things beautiful!

Friday 24 October 2008

Friday 3 October 2008



Watched this movie lately, found it very nice and really meaningful. Sometime we just need to ask ourselve, do you really understand what is love?
I had been falling in love deeply before. been together with some one for many years before we really realized that we are not suitable. Glad that we still maintain as good friend.

The Secret of Love
The first secret - the power of thought
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change out beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The second secret - the power of respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The third secret - the power of giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! It is not like a business where you count the feedback. The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - to power of friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into relationship, you must first being friendship.

The fifth secret - the power of touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relatinships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of letting go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go ou our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The seventh secret - the power of communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You". Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.... why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be commited to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationship. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt possionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the otther person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" f the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

Thursday 2 October 2008

找一个懂你的人

要找到真爱,便要找一个懂你的人。
这个人也许並不是十全十美,但因为他懂你;
你就认为他是十全十美的,就是这么一个懂字。

懂是什么?
当你遇到挫折时,他不说一句损你尊严的话
当你意气用事时,他绝不迁就,而会娓娓解说事理给你听
当你心情不好时,他绝不和你一般见事,而大吵大闹
当你远离千里,难得见面时,他也深信你
当你愉快时,他也愉快而且会告诉年你
当你烦恼时,他也烦恼但不会轻易告诉你

懂,是需要多少的了解,多少的体谅,多少爱心
要找一个懂你的人,也许很难,但要有信心
找一个懂你的人,也期许自己做一个懂他的人

聪明的人,喜欢猜心,虽然每次都猜对了,卻失去了自己的心
傻气的人,喜欢给心,虽然每次都被笑了,卻得到了别人的心

Dishes

When i am stressed up with work, i would spend some time preparing some nice foods for lunch or dinner. Here are some of the dishes that i prepared.













Wednesday 1 October 2008

爱。。。。

爱是无私的吗?爱真的有这么伟大吗?
曾几何时,我曾经因为爱,觉得人生很美好,很美丽!也曾因为爱觉得人生很痛苦,很残酷,很丑陋!
爱一个人就是要全心全意的付出,但有时单方面的付出是很累的!
一个人的街道,有时真的很寂寞,很孤单!夜深人静的那种心情并不好受。
你孤单吗?寂寞吗?
很多时候我是多么的无助,也很无奈!我一直记得父亲告诉我,无论遇到什么挫折,他一定会在旁默默地支持与鼓励我的。虽然您已经不在了,我一定会记得的!很多时候真的很希望您们一直可以在我身旁爱我,关心我。。。一个人的我真的过得好累!好想你们!

What is life? And why should we care? Well to begin with, we are living beings, and that fact distinguishes us from most things in the Universe. Though humans are not the only living things, we are among the few, so understanding the nature of life might be an important step toward understanding ourselves.