Happy New Year! Welcome 2009!

Welcome 2009!

A new journey had just started! May this year be a better year!

God been so good to me... sent one angel into my life! Really enjoying your accompany! Cheers!

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

You know why God created gap between fingers?
So that at some day the one who is made for you, comes and fill those gaps by holding your hand forever!
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

爱

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情， 只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？
她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的，
很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气，
与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。

我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？
其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，只是你没发觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！
当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。
所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分

What is love?

Love is like a tattoo? It is so beautiful yet painful?

Welcome... Journey start again...

Welcome again... your presence had brighten up the dull town again... full of hopes! Wish to spend some precious moment! Let make it the magic moment in our life! Cheers!

I Miss you.....

It's been dull in town since you left, Think of you, I feel bereft

You have flown away to another land, to continue your pastures and life.

Here i sit..... next to where you sit, driving alone, looking out the window. The day is drab and dreary. I think of you to console myself , I try to be a little cherry, but really its just mighty tough. Not having you around, I miss you more than I can say, and feel so low, so sad and so down!

Silently the sweet flowers bloom, Silently sunlight fills the room, Silently you went away, Silently I pine away.

As I walk the noisy street, conscious of my hurrying feet, seeking there for direction, wondering when we will meet? My heart is heavy with unshed tears, my mind is crowded with unknown fears.......... Parting is just another cross to bear, along life's changing way, and you must really know I care, as i grind along each day......

Wish i were somehow there with you, To smell the roses of some fairer hue, to see the way the honey bees siting...... to see you....

I just miss you....... every moments!

That life?

Do you know how i feel now?
I just spoke to you..... at times i really felt so happy to receive your call. but... at times. my heart broken into pieces.
Anyway, life still need to move on. And remember our agreement? i will still carry on with me, move on.. and be there for you whenever u need some one.

God is So Good!

Since the day i met you, the feeling of missing you is getting stronger. It had been a while since i last mising some one so badly.
There was pleasure in the pathless woods, There was rapture on the lonely shore, By the deep sea, with music in its roar, I love now nature less, it just so glad that i met you.
You are just like a flower, So sweet and so fair. I look at you and love touches me like a prayer.
I remember the day when i met you, and now i feel a happiness each and everytime i think of you.
I am trying so hard to control myself. To control my feeling.... to control not falling into it.. to control...Alot of time i just lost of control, lost my sense of direction....so miserable. and i realized that i am in big troubles.
My close friend christina told me, god is so good. So i ask god, if we are not destiny to be together, why HE send this angel to me? To protect me? To comfort me? To motivate me? To challenge me? To???? So many ???
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TIRAMISU

tiramisu - an Italian dessert consisting of layers of sponge cake soaked with coffee and brandy or liqueur layered with mascarpone cheese and topped with grated chocolate

hope you will always remember the taste of the tiramisu.

Some one......

You are just like some one send by god to me. You are just some one that i dream off all this while. some one that can really melted my heart! it had been a while that i never had this feeling. It was so sweet.
We met in this crossed junction of life, yet i know that we are not destiny to be together, just may be can be very good friend.
Anyway, thanks so much for the sweet and wonderful memory. It will always be engraved in my heart.
Faith makes all things possible, Action makes all things work, and Love make all things beautiful!

My latest album

Watched this movie lately, found it very nice and really meaningful. Sometime we just need to ask ourselve, do you really understand what is love?
I had been falling in love deeply before. been together with some one for many years before we really realized that we are not suitable. Glad that we still maintain as good friend.

The Secret of Love
The first secret - the power of thought
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change out beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her when you meet her.

The second secret - the power of respect
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself?" To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself "What do I respect about them?"

The third secret - the power of giving
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! It is not like a business where you count the feedback. The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.

The fourth secret - to power of friendship
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other's eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into relationship, you must first being friendship.

The fifth secret - the power of touch
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relatinships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

The sixth secret - the power of letting go
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go ou our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. "Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life."

The seventh secret - the power of communication
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: "I Love You". Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and.... why are you waiting?

The eighth secret - the power of commitment
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be commited to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationship. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.

The ninth secret - the power of passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone, it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt possionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

The tenth secret - the power of trust
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the otther person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, "Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?" f the answer is "no", think carefully before making a commitment.

找一个懂你的人

要找到真爱，便要找一个懂你的人。
这个人也许並不是十全十美，但因为他懂你；
你就认为他是十全十美的，就是这么一个懂字。

懂是什么？
当你遇到挫折时，他不说一句损你尊严的话
当你意气用事时，他绝不迁就，而会娓娓解说事理给你听
当你心情不好时，他绝不和你一般见事，而大吵大闹
当你远离千里，难得见面时，他也深信你
当你愉快时，他也愉快而且会告诉年你
当你烦恼时，他也烦恼但不会轻易告诉你

懂，是需要多少的了解，多少的体谅，多少爱心
要找一个懂你的人，也许很难，但要有信心
找一个懂你的人，也期许自己做一个懂他的人

聪明的人，喜欢猜心，虽然每次都猜对了，卻失去了自己的心
傻气的人，喜欢给心，虽然每次都被笑了，卻得到了别人的心

Dishes

When i am stressed up with work, i would spend some time preparing some nice foods for lunch or dinner. Here are some of the dishes that i prepared.

爱。。。。

爱是无私的吗？爱真的有这么伟大吗？
曾几何时，我曾经因为爱，觉得人生很美好，很美丽！也曾因为爱觉得人生很痛苦，很残酷，很丑陋！
爱一个人就是要全心全意的付出，但有时单方面的付出是很累的！
一个人的街道，有时真的很寂寞，很孤单！夜深人静的那种心情并不好受。
你孤单吗？寂寞吗？
很多时候我是多么的无助，也很无奈！我一直记得父亲告诉我，无论遇到什么挫折，他一定会在旁默默地支持与鼓励我的。虽然您已经不在了，我一定会记得的！很多时候真的很希望您们一直可以在我身旁爱我，关心我。。。一个人的我真的过得好累！好想你们！

Hard decision

you used to be someone that is so special to me! you are some one that had really driving me crazy for loving you until i lost my direction in life. i had ever think that i can even gave up my life just for you.... how stupid i am!

those bad feeling came back again lately. i don know how it happened. it just came back naturally... but i think this time i am more mature to handle it.

it took me a few days to think about it. What am i actually waiting for? What am i looking for?

...........

I made up my mind. I made one of the most difficult decision in my life. I decided to totally get this feeling out! it is really not easy, indeed it is really hard. But when i think back all the up and down i had gone through for the pass few months, i have to do so.

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人生的平衡点！

I found this very meaningful, just want to share.....

Dreaming.......

I dreamt of you. You are as real as in real life.
A lot of times when I am lost and struggled in life, you always be there for me. You are the one who encouraged me the most, guided me and giving me those inspiration and motivational advices, to keep my heart contented.
A lot of times when I fall, you will definitely be there for me. You comfort me with your warmth arm, telling me that not the end of the world.
No one is perfect in this world, so do I. I always learnt from my previous mistakes; letting the experiences be the lesson of my life, improve to be a better person.
Remember what you always telling me? The most beautiful future will always depend on the need for forgetting the past. You will not be able to go from the past in life as long as you will not have overcome the errors of the past and all that hurt you.
I will always remember that, and live the life in full and always smile in sprite of difficult times.
You always have a choice when you wake up early in the morning, either to be happy or sad. When a door of the happiness is closed, another opens, but us, we continue to look at the closed door and we do not attach importance to that which we have just opened! Remember you always have the choice!

Days........

Days of sorrow, days of encouragement, days of disappoinments, days of hopes....
i had been sick for the passed one week. A signal from my body that i need some rest. Some changes lately in my life. I am trying hard to adjust and fine tune myself. I am just a normal human being with feeling and yet sometime things are just out of my control. You asked me why i have to do so? you said i will burst out one day. for your info, i am doing pretty well and moving on well too
I think i had been worry too much for you. guessed is time for me to just let it be, don think too much on behalf. Your life is in ur own hand! You will never know how bad i felt.
The new journey just started. I just need to be strong and keep moving!
Life is Beautiful!

The 4th Year!

Times flies, it turned into the 4th year.
You came into my life 4 years ago.
It might doesnt mean anything to you, but it really meant a lot to me.
At a certain point of my life, i felt so mesirable without you. You had brought the best ever happiness and memory for me, and yet u had brought the worst to me too.
When we moving on in our life, the footprints that we had left behind will always be engraved in my heart! Cheers~!